As the war in Ukraine approaches its third year, the human cost continues to escalate. Civilians remain trapped in the crossfire of Russian aggression, with no definitive resolution in sight. The staggering death toll on both sides underscores the urgent need for something to change.
“The Ukrainians are underplaying their losses and overplaying the Russian losses and vice versa. Both have been massive and will have lasting effects on both countries’ populations,” President of defense and intelligence firm The Ulysses Group, Andrew Lewis, tells me. “The bottom line is Ukraine has lost territory, and they have not and will not get it back.”
What next? A “peace” agreement that risks rewarding Russian aggression? More arms to Ukraine to turn the tide? There are no easy answers, but the current status quo means lots of lives lost.
One Million Casualties and Rising
The combined number of Ukrainian and Russian dead and injured has now reached an estimated one million, a catastrophic toll for two nations already grappling with declining prewar populations. Official casualty figures remain elusive, with both Kyiv and Moscow refusing to release reliable statistics. When they do, their claims are often met with skepticism.
A confidential official Ukrainian estimate earlier this year, according to the Wall Street Journal, reported 80,000 soldiers dead and 400,000 wounded. Russia’s Ministry of Defense claims that the number of wounded Ukrainians exceeds 400,000, with an additional 200,000 fatalities. Western intelligence, meanwhile, has pinned Ukrainian military deaths at approximately 80,000.
On the Russian side, losses are believed to be even greater.
Estimates suggest that between 462,000 and 728,000 Russian soldiers have been killed, wounded, or captured. September 2024 was reportedly the deadliest month for Russia, with over 1,000 troops injured or killed daily. These figures surpass the Soviet Union’s losses during its decade-long war in Afghanistan, highlighting the devastating human cost of the conflict.
Ukraine’s Population Crisis
The demographic impact of the war is particularly acute for Ukraine, a nation with a prewar population less than one-quarter the size of Russia’s. President Zelensky has resisted calls to mobilize men aged 18 to 25, fearing the loss of a generation critical for the country’s future.
Ukraine’s military relies heavily on older recruits, foreign volunteers, and newly trained troops. The average age of Ukrainian fighters is over 43, reflecting the government’s efforts to preserve its younger population. Experts warn that sustained losses will exacerbate Ukraine’s population decline, fueled by economic instability and social upheaval.
Russia’s “Meat Grinder” Strategy
In Russia, President Putin’s reliance on poorly trained soldiers and former convicts has resulted in catastrophic losses. Many casualties hail from impoverished regions, as the Kremlin deliberately spares Moscow and St. Petersburg’s urban elite from conscription. Tens of thousands of prison inmates have also been recruited under promises of early release, only to be sent to the front lines with minimal training and used in high-risk operations, contributing to staggering attrition rates.
Despite these losses, Putin has also avoided a new general mobilization, fearing domestic unrest, and instead launched a propaganda campaign glorifying fallen soldiers as martyrs. This strategy, aimed at bolstering nationalist sentiment, has temporarily mitigated dissent, but analysts warn it may unravel if casualties continue to rise without battlefield successes.
Civilian Suffering
Civilian casualties, while less frequently reported, are no less severe.
Ukrainian officials surmise that over 12,000 civilians have been killed, including 551 children. Independent humanitarian agency reports suggest that nearly 20,000 civilians have been injured, with 95 percent of incidents occurring in populated areas. The Donetsk region has borne the brunt of the violence.
In Russia, civilian losses have been comparatively lower given that it isn’t being waged in its terrain. Cross-border shelling and sporadic fighting, however, have claimed lives in border regions. Official figures cannot be determined, as the Kremlin strictly controls and restricts access to casualty information.
Psychological Toll
The immense psychological toll of the war in Ukraine—marked by widespread trauma, anxiety, and long-term mental health challenges— also underscores the urgent need to end the conflict swiftly to prevent further damage to individuals and future generations.
“War most severely affects the psyche, disrupting mental health and, subsequently, physical health—not only for combatants but also for civilians,” Senior Intelligence Analyst at the Global Organization for Security and Intelligence Ukraine, Sofia Ozerova, tells me. “Issues such as aggression, anxiety, deep depression, alienation, inability to adapt, and more become widespread societal problems. All of this will inevitably affect future generations in Ukraine.”
Ms. Ozerova’s personal experience—losing her father in the war, enduring the persistent distress of bombardment and air-raid sirens, and facing the anguish of her partner, a Ukrainian soldier, being missing in action for several days—highlights the profound and intolerable psychological toll of the conflict.
The Strategic Stalemate
As the wounded and death toll climbs daily, no clear path to victory has emerged for either side.
Russia currently occupies roughly 20 percent of Ukrainian territory. Its forces made significant advances in August 2024, the fastest since the war’s early days. These gains, however, have come at a staggering cost. Moscow’s attritional strategy has strained its military capacity, with poorly trained recruits replacing experienced soldiers. Ukraine’s counteroffensives, though determined, have struggled to achieve decisive breakthroughs.
The stalemate highlights the war’s unsustainable nature. Western military aid has bolstered Ukraine’s resistance but has not shifted the strategic balance decisively. The prolonged conflict risks further destabilizing Eastern Europe and undermining global security.
The Case for Negotiation
Mounting casualty figures underscore the urgency of pursuing a negotiated settlement. Continued fighting inflicts untold suffering on both nations and threatens to destabilize the region for decades. Economic fallout, including soaring energy prices and disrupted supply chains, exacerbates the global impact of the war.
While a hasty agreement risks rewarding Russian aggression, the alternative—an indefinite conflict—is equally perilous.
Defense and National Security Specialist who previously worked at the United States Embassy in Ukraine, David Fuhriman, stressed that the longer the conflict grinds on, the more the risk of nuclear warfare rises.
“Russian leaders have threatened to use nuclear weapons in Ukraine and against the Western nations as well many times,” he explains. “If a World War Three does occur, then the devastation that will ensue will lead to the total breakdown in the world’s economies, health systems will not be able to manage all of the casualties, and the environment will be wrecked for decades, possibly forever.”
A Turning Point
Throughout the campaign trail, President-elect Trump pledged to end the war swiftly, though his strategy on how to do so is vague. A potential ceasefire, enforced by European peacekeepers, and a freeze on Ukraine’s NATO membership could provide a framework for negotiations, although such measures face resistance from both Kyiv and Moscow.
According to Mr. Lewis, “Trump knows the only way to cripple Russia’s ability to prosecute the war in Ukraine is to saturate the energy market with surplus U.S. oil and gas.”
“He intends to drive production in the United States to ensure United States energy dominance and, in simplified terms, to depress international prices limiting not only Russian exports but also their revenue, which will directly impact their ability to prosecute the war,” he explained. “But in doing so, he will face tremendous domestic opposition from the left. He will also face a delicate balance with members of OPEC who will not want to see excess production depressing global energy prices.”
However, Ukrainians themselves see an end to the fighting by ramping up sanctions and providing Kyiv with the weapons it needs to turn the tide.
“The international community can take several steps to advance negotiations and bring an end to the violence,” Ms. Ozerova added. “These include reducing oil prices to weaken Russia’s economic capabilities, tightening sanctions, seizing Russian assets, restricting tourism, and further isolating the aggressor from the global community. Supporting Ukraine through increased arms supplies and political backing is equally crucial.”
We can debate policy and strategy endlessly, but we cannot lose sight of the human toll—the families torn apart, the cities reduced to rubble, the futures stolen. A war of attrition is not a sustainable solution, yet the complexities of justice and sovereignty make any resolution fraught with compromise. It is not fair to expect Ukraine to surrender its land, nor is it fair to let this war drag on indefinitely, feeding only destruction. So when is enough, enough? The answer is elusive, but what is clear is that the longer this war continues, the more everyday people—on both sides—pay the ultimate price.
Either Ukraine is armed to the teeth to force a swift end, or the key players come to the table for a diplomatic resolution. One way or another, the powers that be will decide—but it’s the people who will bear the cost.
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One aspect of war often overlooked by distant observers is that casualties continue even when there are no headlines.
I think Ukraine’s dreams of ramping up the war are fever dreams and fair or not they are going to have to accept losing territory. BRICS makes any hope of “isolating” Russia impossible. The idea that you are going to bring significant economic problems to bear on a country in an alliance involving three of the ten biggest economies in the world is a failure to read the current situation. The left in America holds zero power and there is almost no support for continued let alone increased military aide for Ukraine on the right in America. If Ukraine wants to increase their firepower they are going to have to do so without the U.S., which I don’t see happening.